She Considered Herself Responsible for the Death of the Child, Zara Noor
Posted on Sep 15, 2022
Model and actress Zara Noor Abbas has claimed that she held herself accountable for the death of her child for a protracted period. Still, she bore no direct or indirect responsibility for the child's passing.
In a recent interview with model and fashion designer Fareeha Altaf, Zara Noor Abbas opened up for the first time about the birth and death of her kid.
Zara Noor Abbas described the birth and death of a child as the most painful moment of her life and said that she still could not get over this grief.
She said that when she gave birth to her child, she begged the doctors to put her to sleep by giving her sleeping pills, as she could not see her child dying and being buried.
According to her, despite her request, the doctors did not give her sleeping pills, and she also obtained the death certificate of her child and saw the remaining stages.
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She described the death soon after the child's birth as the most painful moment of her life and said that she still could not come out of this grief as she felt responsible for the child's death for a long time.
In response to a question, she said that, like other women, she had been thinking for a long time that if she had taken proper care of her diet, her child would not have died.
According to her, she used to think that if only she had taken vitamins and minerals, if she had taken folic acid, if she had lost her pre-pregnancy weight if she had taken better care of herself, and if she had made the right food choices, maybe she would have. It wouldn't have happened.
Zara Noor Abbas said that all their words might be wishful thinking, but God saves whomever He wants to save, and whoever He wants to take back, He takes them back in any case. They were helpless; they could not do anything; what happened was what God wanted and what was God's will. And all the decisions related to their child were God's will.
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According to her parents, relatives, and husband, Asad Siddiqui explained and supported her after the death of her child, due to which she was able to return to a normal life.
She also discussed complications related to the death of a child immediately after birth. She advised women to constantly contact a gynecologist during pregnancy and try to see two gynecologists simultaneously. Stay in touch so that any decision is easy to make in difficult times.
According to her, no matter how much women try, some problems and issues are known only when women get pregnant.
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Zara Noor Abbas said that some uterine complications, such as the small uterus and the toxic water in the stomach after pregnancy, are known only when women become pregnant.
It should be noted that before her, Asad Siddiqui, the husband of the actress, had told in January this year that his wife's pregnancy was not lost, but she gave birth to a 6-month-old child who died immediately.
Asad Siddiqui and Zara Noor Abbas got married in December 2017, and the news of the expected birth of the couple's first child came in September 2021, but later, the news went viral that the actress miscarried.
But Asad Siddiqui had said that his wife's pregnancy was not lost, and now Zara Noor Abbas spoke about this matter for the first time and said that she had a premature birth due to complications.
Zara Noor Abbas was married to Asad Siddiqui for the second time before her first marriage in 2014 to a man living abroad at a young age, but they divorced in early 2017.
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